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What John Lewis Has Woken Us All Up To

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Every generation drifts from the one before it – that’s how culture renews itself. But this time, the gap feels colder. Our children aren’t rebelling against us; they’re simply existing somewhere else – behind glass, on screens, in worlds we can’t quite enter.

When John Lewis released its Christmas film this week, with the line “If you can’t find the words, find the gift,” something profound happened. It wasn’t just another festive tear-jerker. It was a mirror held up to modern life, and it reflected a quiet truth many more of us have been avoiding: we’ve forgotten how to connect.

Our colleague Andrew Wardlaw captured it perfectly in his LinkedIn post about the ad:

  • “As humanity continues its slide towards individualism - drawn to screens, headphones, and the isolating appeal of tech, something essential has started to fade: our ability to truly connect.”

The comments beneath his post read like emotional field notes from contemporary life. “It whispers,” wrote Laura Barber, who presents the Ripple Effect podcast, “but a whisper that lands deep in the heart. The nervousness of trying to connect and not knowing how, the ache of being side by side but not really together.”

One parent wrote: “It absolutely is the small acts (when they come up for air from devices) that mean the most.” And another, “Our young people still care and still love; they’re just bewildered as to how they should express their feelings.”

Every generation has faced emotional divides with their parents, but this one feels different. It’s not ideological distance; it’s neurological rewiring. We’ve raised a generation fluent in emojis but rusty in empathy - a population that can communicate faster than ever but connect less deeply.

And yet, as Megan Bourner-Powell says, who monitors culture at Huxly, this ad isn’t only about a father and son finding common ground through awkwardness; it’s also about masculinity being quietly rewritten. The film gives men permission to be tender in small, uncertain ways - to bridge emotional distance without losing dignity. Where there’s rising pressure to embody responsible masculinity, it validates a ‘baby-steps’ approach: imperfect gestures that still reach out. The son is learning what kind of man he wants to be; the father, what kind of role model he hopes he’s become. Both are navigating vulnerability in real time - and the ad says that’s okay.

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This lens makes the generational story even more poignant. The son isn’t rejecting connection or hiding behind tech; he’s rejecting tech as his language of care. In choosing an analogue act over a digital one, he models a more human form of strength: the courage to be emotionally visible. It reminds us not to be so hard on this generation. They’re not just chronically online; they’re also contending with competing scripts about how to express feeling and masculinity in a world that still tells men to stay composed. Those tensions make every subtle gesture more meaningful.

Yet this isn’t just about Gen Z. It’s about all of us. Because the same tools that made us more reachable have also made us more remote. We’ve spent a decade perfecting our online selves while neglecting our offline lives. Add in years of political division, pandemic isolation, and algorithmic echo chambers, and what’s left is a society fluent in reaction but struggling with reflection.

Recent research into why many people are drinking less revealed insights around our rising inability to connect. One U.S. male in his fifties told us: “The biggest reason people aren’t drinking as much is that they’ve forgotten how to have honest, face-to-face interactions.”

The result is emotional minimalism: a world where connection has been compressed to its most efficient form — a like, a swipe, a heart emoji. The emotional vocabulary that once lived in tone, touch, and shared experience has been flattened into pixels.

That’s why this ad lands so hard.

  • The line “If you can’t find the words, find the gift” gives people permission to reach out clumsily but kindly. It acknowledges that we’ve lost the words, but not the will.
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Brand Response

And here’s where brands - especially in CPG sectors - come in. Because the truth is, brands are some of the last bridges we all still cross together. Shared meals, familiar scents, comforting rituals: these are the places where connection still happens through the senses.

So, if society is losing its emotional vocabulary, brands must help rebuild it. Not by talking about connection, but by designing for it.

1. Design for Connection

Create products, packs, and rituals that prompt togetherness. Think of the small gestures that make people feel seen - a sharing format that encourages generosity, a product built for moments of pause rather than distraction.

2. Create Sensorial Anchors

In a digital world, the senses are the most direct route back to presence. Sensory experiences are how we remember we’re human. Products that awaken those senses don’t just satisfy; they reconnect.

3. Reframe Purpose as Emotional Repair

Consumers don’t need brands to save the planet in every ad. They need them to save something smaller but just as vital - the capacity to feel, to empathise, to reach out. The best brands in the years ahead will be those that help people feel human again.

4. Celebrate Imperfection

Just as that dad’s awkward dance made millions cry, authenticity will always beat polish. In a world of AI-generated perfection, imperfection is the new intimacy.

For CPG brands, this isn’t sentimentality. It’s strategy. Because as technology accelerates, the brands that win won’t be the ones that connect fastest, they’ll be the ones that connect deepest.

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